Assess the effectiveness of your repair attempts in your relationship.
Print the questionnaire below and complete with your partner:
Scoring: Give yourself one point for each “true” answer.
6 or Above: This is an area of strength in your relationship. When conflict discussions are at risk of getting out of hand, you are able to put on the brakes and effectively calm each other down.
Below 6: Your relationship could stand some improvement in this area. By learning how to repair your interactions when negativity engulfs you, you can dramatically improve the effectiveness of your problem solving and develop a more positive perspective of each other and your relationship.